This is such a term of endearment for me. I got used to saying it to a close knit group of friends when all our lives were kind of upside down. We still use it today with lighthearted humor. Raising kids to have a clean mouth is hard when you yourself use bad language. I don’t want to be a hypocrite, but I also don’t want foul mouthed kinder kids. I also don’t want to raise my kids to follow the rules of propriety and appropriateness.

Today, giving zero fucks is a mantra. I definitely care about a lot, but to this day I’m the HMFIC and only my true muthafuckas know my souls truth.